In what seems like a never-ending battle fighting the opioid epidemic gets tougher and deadlier every day. We are seeing increasingly more new intakes coming through our doors seeking help and when asked why the majority of them respond with “I don’t want to die those blue pills are killing people everywhere and I am not going out like that.” In the twenty-five plus years we have been treating people for opiate addiction here in Tucson we have never seen such a high increase in opiate related overdoses that resulted in death and the majority of those involved fentanyl. One of the main reasons we are seeing this is because these fake pills are so readily available and inexpensive to buy it is hard for anyone with an opiate addiction to say no and when asked if they know they are playing Russian roulette with their life the simply state “It’s worth the risk for the price and you cant find anything else out there anyway.” This is correct according to the DEA the cost of a pound of heroin is $4000.00 dollars and the profit from that is about $180,000.00. The cost of a pound of fentanyl is about $4500.00 and the profit from that is 1.6 million dollars so it is no wonder why you do not find anything else available to buy on the streets. But that is about to change and not for the better and this is one of the main reasons I am pushing public awareness. There is a deadly synthetic opioid found recently in Florida called Isotonitazene commonly referred to as ISO. According to reports, ISO is approximately 20 to 100 times stronger than fentanyl. Like fentanyl, this synthetic opioid is being mixed with other drugs and appearing on the streets in powder or pill form. According to the Drug Enforcement Administration that, beginning in April 2019, ISO entered the illicit drug market nationally and is responsible for numerous deaths. Like fentanyl, ISO can be laced with other drugs such as cocaine, methamphetamine, and even counterfeit pills. A 2021 American Society of Addiction Medicine report shows at least forty fatal overdoses involving ISO during a six-month time period. That number has now gone up to fifty fatal overdoses per month and to make matters even worse Narcan has little to no effect when being administered to an individual that is overdosing on ISO. So please share this information with anyone you may know that is dealing with opiate addiction and help them get the help they need to change their lives and once again become productive members of our community and enjoy all the wonderful things that life has to offer.
 
Ross Croydon Clinical Director
Behavioral Awareness Center

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Relapse prevention is why most people seek treatment. By the time most individuals seek help, they have already tried to quit on their own and they are looking for a better solution. 
 
There are four main ideas in relapse prevention. First, relapse is a gradual process with distinct stages. The goal of treatment is to help individuals recognize the early stages, in which the chances of success are greatest. Second, recovery is a process of personal growth with developmental milestones. Each stage of recovery has its own risks of relapse. Third, the main tools of relapse prevention are cognitive therapy and mind-body relaxation, which are used to develop healthy coping skills. Fourth, most relapses can be explained in terms of a few basic rules. Educating clients in these rules can help them focus on what is important: 1) change your life (recovery involves creating a new life where it is easier to not use); 2) be completely honest; 3) ask for help; 4) practice self-care; and 5) don’t bend the rules.
The Stages of Relapse
The key to relapse prevention is to understand that relapse happens gradually. It begins weeks and sometime months before an individual picks up a drink or drug. The goal of treatment is to help individuals recognize the early warning signs of relapse and to develop coping skills to prevent relapse early in the process when the chances of success are greatest. This has been shown to significantly reduce the risk of relapse. Gorski has broken relapse into 11 phases. This level of detail is helpful to clinicians but can sometimes be overwhelming to clients. I have found it helpful to think in terms of three stages of relapse: emotional, mental, and physical.
 
Emotional Relapse
During emotional relapse, individuals are not thinking about using. They remember their last relapse and they don't want to repeat it. But their emotions and behaviors are setting them up for relapse down the road. Because clients are not consciously thinking about using during this stage, denial is a big part of emotional relapse.
 
These are some of the signs of emotional relapse: 1) bottling up emotions; 2) isolating; 3) not going to meetings; 4) going to meetings but not sharing; 5) focusing on others (focusing on other people’s problems or focusing on how other people affect them); and 6) poor eating and sleeping habits. The common denominator of emotional relapse is poor self-care, in which self-care is broadly defined to include emotional, psychological, and physical care.
 
One of the main goals of therapy at this stage is to help clients understand what self-care means and why it is important. The need for self-care varies from person to person. A simple reminder of poor self-care is the acronym HALT: hungry, angry, lonely, and tired. For some individuals, self-care is as basic as physical self-care, such as sleep, hygiene, and a healthy diet. For most individuals, self-care is about emotional self-care. Clients need to make time for themselves, to be kind to themselves, and to give themselves permission to have fun. These topics usually have to be revisited many times during therapy: “Are you starting to feel exhausted again? Do you feel that you’re being good yourself? How are you having fun? Are you putting time aside for yourself or are you getting caught up in life?”
 
Another goal of therapy at this stage is to help clients identify their denial. I find it helpful to encourage clients to compare their current behavior to behavior during past relapses and see if their self-care is worsening or improving.
 
The transition between emotional and mental relapse is not arbitrary, but the natural consequence of prolonged, poor self-care. When individuals exhibit poor self-care and live in emotional relapse long enough, eventually they start to feel uncomfortable in their own skin. They begin to feel restless, irritable, and discontent. As their tension builds, they start to think about using just to escape.
 
Mental Relapse
In mental relapse, there is a war going on inside people’s minds. Part of them wants to use, but part of them doesn’t. As individuals go deeper into mental relapse, their cognitive resistance to relapse diminishes and their need for escape increases.
 
These are some of the signs of mental relapse: 1) craving for drugs or alcohol; 2) thinking about people, places, and things associated with past use; 3) minimizing consequences of past use or glamorizing past use; 4) bargaining; 5) lying; 6) thinking of schemes to better control using; 7) looking for relapse opportunities; and 8) planning a relapse.
 
Helping clients avoid high-risk situations is an important goal of therapy. Clinical experience has shown that individuals have a hard time identifying their high-risk situations and believing that they are high-risk. Sometimes they think that avoiding high-risk situations is a sign of weakness.
 
In bargaining, individuals start to think of scenarios in which it would be acceptable to use. A common example is when people give themselves permission to use on holidays or on a trip. It is a common experience that airports and all-inclusive resorts are high-risk environments in early recovery. Another form of bargaining is when people start to think that they can relapse periodically, perhaps in a controlled way, for example, once or twice a year. Bargaining also can take the form of switching one addictive substance for another.
 
Occasional, brief thoughts of using are normal in early recovery and are different from mental relapse. When people enter a substance abuse program, I often hear them say, “I want to never have to think about using again.” It can be frightening when they discover that they still have occasional cravings. They feel they are doing something wrong and that they have let themselves and their families down. They are sometimes reluctant to even mention thoughts of using because they are so embarrassed by them.
 
Clinical experience has shown that occasional thoughts of using need to be normalized in therapy. They do not mean the individual will relapse or that they are doing a poor job of recovery. Once a person has experienced addiction, it is impossible to erase the memory. But with good coping skills, a person can learn to let go of thoughts of using quickly.
 
Clinicians can distinguish mental relapse from occasional thoughts of using by monitoring a client’s behavior longitudinally. Warning signs are when thoughts of using change in character and become more insistent or increase in frequency.
 
Physical Relapse
Finally, physical relapse is when an individual starts using again. Some researchers divide physical relapse into a “lapse” (the initial drink or drug use) and a “relapse” (a return to uncontrolled using). Clinical experience has shown that when clients focus too strongly on how much they used during a lapse, they do not fully appreciate the consequences of one drink. Once an individual has had one drink or one drug use, it may quickly lead to a relapse of uncontrolled using. But more importantly, it usually will lead to a mental relapse of obsessive or uncontrolled thinking about using, which eventually can lead to physical relapse.
 
Most physical relapses are relapses of opportunity. They occur when the person has a window in which they feel they will not get caught. Part of relapse prevention involves rehearsing these situations and developing healthy exit strategies.
 
When people don’t understand relapse prevention, they think it involves saying no just before they are about to use. But that is the final and most difficult stage to stop, which is why people relapse. If an individual remains in mental relapse long enough without the necessary coping skills, clinical experience has shown they are more likely to turn to drugs or alcohol just to escape their turmoil.
 
Cognitive Therapy and Relapse Prevention
Cognitive therapy is one of the main tools for changing people’s negative thinking and developing healthy coping skills. The effectiveness of cognitive therapy in relapse prevention has been confirmed in numerous studies.
 
This is a short list of the types of negative thinking that are obstacles to recovery and are topics for cognitive therapy: 1) My problem is because of other people; 2) I don’t think I can handle life without using; 3) Maybe I can just use occasionally; 4) Life won’t be fun — I won’t be fun — without using; 5) I’m worried I will turn into someone I don’t like; 6) I can’t make all the necessary changes; I can’t change my friends; 7) I don’t want to abandon my family; 8) Recovery is too much work; 9) My cravings will be overwhelming; I won’t be able to resist them; 10) If I stop, I’ll only start up again; I have never finished anything; 11) No one has to know if I relapse; and 12) I’m worried I have been so damaged by my addiction that I won’t be able to recover.
 
The negative thinking that underlies addictive thinking is usually all-or-nothing thinking, disqualifying the positives, catastrophizing, and negatively self-labeling. These thoughts can lead to anxiety, resentments, stress, and depression, all of which can lead to relapse. Cognitive therapy and mind-body relaxation help break old habits and retrain neural circuits to create new, healthier ways of thinking.
 
Fear
Fear is a common negative thinking pattern in addiction. These are some of the categories of fearful thinking: 1) fear of not measuring up; 2) fear of being judged; 3) fear of feeling like a fraud and being discovered; 4) fear of not knowing how to live in the world without drugs or alcohol; 5) fear of success; and 6) fear of relapse.
 
A basic fear of recovery is that the individual is not capable of recovery. The belief is that recovery requires some special strength or willpower that the individual does not possess. Past relapses are taken as proof that the individual does not have what it takes to recover. Cognitive therapy helps clients see that recovery is based on coping skills and not willpower.
 
Redefining Fun
One of the important tasks of therapy is to help individuals redefine fun. Clinical experience has shown that when clients are under stress, they tend to glamorize their past use and think about it longingly. They start to think that recovery is hard work and addiction was fun. They begin to disqualify the positives they have gained through recovery. The cognitive challenge is to acknowledge that recovery is sometimes hard work, but addiction is even harder. If addiction were so easy, people wouldn’t want to quit and wouldn’t have to quit.
 
When individuals continue to refer to their using days as “fun,” they continue to downplay the negative consequences of addiction. Expectancy theory has shown that when people expect to have fun, they usually do, and when they expect that something will not be fun, it usually isn’t. In the early stages of substance abuse, using is mostly a positive experience for those who are emotionally and genetically predisposed. Later, when using turns into a negative experience, they often continue to expect it to be positive. It is common to hear addicts talk about chasing the early highs they had. On the other hand, individuals expect that not using drugs or alcohol will lead to the emotional pain or boredom that they tried to escape. Therefore, on the one hand, individuals expect that using will continue to be fun, and, on the other hand, they expect that not using will be uncomfortable. Cognitive therapy can help address both these misconceptions.
 
Learning from Setbacks
How individuals deal with setbacks plays a major role in recovery. A setback can be any behavior that moves an individual closer to physical relapse. Some examples of setbacks are not setting healthy boundaries, not asking for help, not avoiding high-risk situations, and not practicing self-care. A setback does not have to end in relapse to be worthy of discussion in therapy.
 
Recovering individuals tend to see setbacks as failures because they are unusually hard on themselves [9]. Setbacks can set up a vicious cycle, in which individuals see setbacks as confirming their negative view of themselves. They feel that they cannot live life on life's terms. This can lead to more using and a greater sense of failure. Eventually, they stop focusing on the progress they have made and begin to see the road ahead as overwhelming.
 
Setbacks are a normal part of progress. They are not failures. They are caused by insufficient coping skills and/or inadequate planning, which are issues that can be fixed. Clients are encouraged to challenge their thinking by looking at past successes and acknowledging the strengths they bring to recovery. This stops clients from making global statements, such as, “This proves I’m a failure.” When individuals take an all-or-nothing, dichotomous view of recovery, they are more likely to feel overwhelmed and abandon long-term goals in favor of short-term relief. This reaction is termed the Abstinence Violation Effect.
 
Becoming Comfortable with Being Uncomfortable
More broadly speaking, I believe that recovering individuals need to learn to feel comfortable with being uncomfortable. They often assume that non-addicts don’t have the same problems or experience the same negative emotions. Therefore, they feel it is defensible or necessary to escape their negative feelings. The cognitive challenge is to indicate that negative feelings are not signs of failure, but a normal part of life and opportunities for growth. Helping clients feel comfortable with being uncomfortable can reduce their need to escape into addiction.
 
 
The Stages of Recovery
Recovery is a process of personal growth in which each stage has its own risks of relapse and its own developmental tasks to reach the next stage. The stages of recovery are not the same length for each person, but they are a useful way of looking at recovery and teaching recovery to clients. Broadly speaking, there are three stages of recovery. In the original developmental model, the stages were called “transition, early recovery, and ongoing recovery”. More descriptive names might be “abstinence, repair, and growth.”
 
Abstinence Stage
It is commonly held that the abstinence stage starts immediately after a person stops using and usually lasts for 1 to 2 years. The focus of this stage is dealing with cravings and not using. These are some of the tasks of the abstinence stage:
 
Accept that you have an addiction
 
Practice honesty in life
 
Develop coping skills for dealing with cravings
 
Become active in self-help groups
 
Practice self-care and saying no
 
Understand the stages of relapse
 
Get rid of friends who are using
 
Deal with post-acute withdrawal
 
Develop healthy alternatives to using
 
See yourself as a non-user
 
There are many risks to recovery at this stage, including physical cravings, poor self-care, wanting to use just one more time, and struggling with whether one has an addiction. Clients are often eager to make big external changes in early recovery, such as changing jobs or ending a relationship. It is generally felt that big changes should be avoided in the first year until individuals have enough perspective to see their role, if any, in these issues and to not focus entirely on others.
 
The tasks of this stage can be summarized as improved physical and emotional self-care. Clinical experience has shown that recovering individuals are often in a rush to skip past these tasks and get on with what they think are the real issues of recovery. Clients need to be reminded that lack of self-care is what got them here and that continued lack of self-care will lead back to relapse.
 
Post-Acute Withdrawal
Dealing with post-acute withdrawal is one of the tasks of the abstinence stage. Post-acute withdrawal begins shortly after the acute phase of withdrawal and is a common cause of relapse. Unlike acute withdrawal, which has mostly physical symptoms, post-acute withdrawal syndrome (PAWS) has mostly psychological and emotional symptoms. Its symptoms also tend to be similar for most addictions, unlike acute withdrawal, which tends to have specific symptoms for each addiction.
 
These are some of the symptoms of post-acute withdrawal: 1) mood swings; 2) anxiety; 3) irritability; 4) variable energy; 5) low enthusiasm; 6) variable concentration; and 7) disturbed sleep. Many of the symptoms of post-acute withdrawal overlap with depression, but post-acute withdrawal symptoms are expected to gradually improve over time.
 
Probably the most important thing to understand about post-acute withdrawal is its prolonged duration, which can last up to 2 years. The danger is that the symptoms tend to come and go. It is not unusual to have no symptoms for 1 to 2 weeks, only to get hit again. This is when people are at risk of relapse, when they are unprepared for the protracted nature of post-acute withdrawal. Clinical experience has shown that when clients struggle with post-acute withdrawal, they tend to catastrophize their chances of recovery. They think that they are not making progress. The cognitive challenge is to encourage clients to measure their progress month-to-month rather than day-to-day or week-to-week.
 
Repair Stage
In the second stage of recovery, the main task is to repair the damage caused by addiction. Clinical experience has shown that this stage usually lasts 2 to 3 years.
 
In the abstinence stage of recovery, clients usually feel increasingly better. They are finally taking control of their lives. But in the repair stage of recovery, it is not unusual for individuals to feel worse temporarily. They must confront the damage caused by addiction to their relationships, employment, finances, and self-esteem. They must also overcome the guilt and negative self-labeling that evolved during addiction. Clients sometimes think that they have been so damaged by their addiction that they cannot experience joy, feel confident, or have healthy relationships.
 
These are some of the developmental tasks of the repair stage of recovery:
 
Use cognitive therapy to overcome negative self-labeling and catastrophizing
 
Understand that individuals are not their addiction
 
Repair relationships and make amends when possible
 
Start to feel comfortable with being uncomfortable
 
Improve self-care and make it an integral part of recovery
 
Develop a balanced and healthy lifestyle
 
Continue to engage in self-help groups
 
Develop more healthy alternatives to using
 
Clinical experience has shown that common causes of relapse in this stage are poor self-care and not going to self-help groups.
 
Growth Stage
The growth stage is about developing skills that individuals may have never learned and that predisposed them to addiction. The repair stage of recovery was about catching up, and the growth stage is about moving forward. Clinical experience has shown that this stage usually starts 3 to 5 years after individuals have stopped using drugs or alcohol and is a lifetime path.
 
This is also the time to deal with any family of origin issues or any past trauma that may have occurred. These are issuing that client are sometimes eager to get to. But they can be stressful issues, and, if tackled too soon, clients may not have the necessary coping skills to handle them, which may lead to relapse.
 
These are some of the tasks of the growth stage:
 
Identify and repair negative thinking and self-destructive patterns
 
Understand how negative familial patterns have been passed down, which will help individuals let go of resentments and move forward
 
Challenge fears with cognitive therapy and mind-body relaxation
 
Set healthy boundaries
 
Begin to give back and help others
 
Reevaluate one’s lifestyle periodically and make sure the individual is on track
 
The tasks of this stage are like the tasks that non-addicts face in everyday life. When non-addicts do not develop healthy life skills, the consequence is that they may be unhappy in life. When recovering individuals do not develop healthy life skills, the consequence is that they also may be unhappy in life, but that can lead to relapse.
 
Causes of Relapse in Late-Stage Recovery
In late-stage recovery, individuals are subject to special risks of relapse that are not often seen in the early stages. Clinical experience has shown that the following are some of the causes of relapse in the growth stage of recovery.
 
1) Clients often want to put their addiction behind them and forget that they ever had an addiction. They feel they have lost part of their life to addiction and don’t want to spend the rest of their life focused on recovery. They start to go to fewer meetings.
 
2) As life improves, individuals begin to focus less on self-care. They take on more responsibilities and try to make up for lost time. In a sense, they are trying to get back to their old life without the using. They stop doing the healthy things that contributed to their recovery.
 
3) Clients feel they are not learning anything new at self-help meetings and begin to go less frequently. Clients need to understand that one of the benefits of going to meetings is to be reminded of what the “voice of addiction” sounds like, because it is easy to forget.
 
4) People feel that they should be beyond the basics. They think it is almost embarrassing to talk about the basics of recovery. They are embarrassed to mention that they still have occasional cravings or that they are no longer sure if they had an addiction.
 
5) People think that they have a better understanding of drugs and alcohol and, therefore, think they should be able to control a relapse or avoid the negative consequences.
 
The Five Rules of Recovery +1
This section is based on my experience of working with patients for more years than I care to remember. in treatment programs and in private practice. Experience has shown that most relapses can be explained in terms of a few basic rules. Teaching clients these simple rules help them understand that recovery is not complicated or beyond their control. It is based on a few simple rules that are easy to remember: 1) change your life; 2) be completely honest; 3) ask for help; 4) practice self-care; and 5) don’t bend the rules. I have included my addition in my summary, and it may be one of the most important of all!!
 
Rule 1: Change Your Life
The most important rule of recovery is that a person does not achieve recovery by just not using. Recovery involves creating a new life in which it is easier to not use. When individuals do not change their lives, then all the factors that contributed to their addiction will eventually catch up with them.
 
But clients and families often begin recovery by hoping that they don’t have to change. They often enter treatment saying, “We want our old life back — without the using.” I try to help clients understand that wishing for their old life back is like wishing for relapse. Rather than seeing the need for change as a negative, they are encouraged to see recovery as an opportunity for change. If they make the necessary changes, they can go forward and be happier than they were before. This is the “silver lining” of having an addiction. It forces people to reevaluate their lives and make changes that non-addicts don’t have to make.
 
Recovering individuals are often overwhelmed by the idea of change. As part of their all-or-nothing thinking, they assume that change means they must change everything in their lives. It helps them to know that there is usually only a small percent of their lives that needs to be changed. It can also be assuring to know that most people have the same problems and need to make similar changes.
 
Examples of Change
What do most people need to change? There are three categories:
 
Change negative thinking patterns discussed above
 
Avoid people, places, and things associated with using
 
Incorporate the five rules of recovery
 
Clients need to develop a healthy fear of the people, places, and things that were part of using. But this requires significant mental retraining because those people, places, and things were previously associated with positive emotions. Also, clients tend to think that developing a healthy fear of these things is showing weakness or accepting defeat.
 
Rule 2: Be Completely Honest
Addiction requires lying. Addicts must lie about getting their drug, hiding the drug, denying the consequences, and planning their next relapse. Eventually, addicted individuals end up lying to themselves. Clinical experience shows that when clients feel they cannot be completely honest, it is a sign of emotional relapse. It is often said that recovering individuals are as sick as their secrets. One of the challenges of therapy is to help clients practice telling the truth and practice admitting when they have misspoken and quickly correcting it.
 
How honest should a person be without jeopardizing his or her work or relationships? Clients are encouraged to understand the concept of a recovery circle. This is a group of people that includes family, doctors, counselors, self-help groups, and sponsors. Individuals are encouraged to be completely honest within their recovery circle. As clients feel more comfortable, they may choose to expand the size of their circle.
 
Probably the most common misinterpretation of complete honesty is when individuals feel they must be honest about what is wrong with other people. Honesty, of course, is self-honesty. I like to tell patients that a simple test of complete honesty is that they should feel “uncomfortably honest” when sharing within their recovery circle. This is especially important in self-help groups in which, after a while, individuals sometimes start to go through the motions of participating.
 
A common question about honesty is how honest a person should be when dealing with past lies. The general answer is that honesty is always preferable, except where it may harm others.
 
Rule 3: Ask for Help
Most people start recovery by trying to do it on their own. They want to prove that they have control over their addiction, and they are not as unhealthy as people think. Joining a self-help group has been shown to significantly increase the chances of long-term recovery. The combination of a substance abuse program and self-help group is the most effective.
 
There are many self-help groups to choose from. Twelve-step groups include Alcoholics Anonymous (AA), Narcotics Anonymous (NA), Marijuana Anonymous (MA), Cocaine Anonymous (CA), Gamblers Anonymous (GA), and Adult Children of Alcoholics (ACA). Every country, every town, and almost every cruise ship has a 12-step meeting. There are other self-help groups, including Women for Sobriety, Secular Organizations for Sobriety, Smart Recovery, and Caduceus groups for health professionals. It has been shown that the way to get the most out of 12-step groups is to attend meetings regularly, have a sponsor, read 12-step materials, and have a goal of abstinence.
 
These are some of the generally recognized benefits of active participation in self-help groups: 1) individuals feel that they are not alone; 2) they learn what the voice of addiction sounds like by hearing it in others; 3) they learn how other people have done recovery and what coping skills have been successful; and 4) they have a safe place to go where they will not be judged.
 
There is one benefit of self-help groups that deserves special attention. Guilt and shame are common emotions in addiction. They can be obstacles to recovery, because individuals may feel that they have been damaged by their addiction and they don’t deserve recovery or happiness. Clinical experience has shown that self-help groups help individuals overcome their guilt and shame of addiction by seeing that they are not alone. They feel that recovery is within their reach.
 
These are some of the reasons clients give for not joining self-help groups: 1) If I join a group, I would be admitting that I am an addict or alcoholic; 2) I want to do it on my own; 3) I don’t like groups; 4) I’m not a joiner; 5) I don’t like speaking in front of other people; 6) I don’t want to switch from one addiction to becoming addicted to AA; 7) I’m afraid I’ll be recognized; and 8) I don’t like the religious aspects. The negative thinking in all these objections is material for cognitive therapy.
 
Rule 4: Practice Self-Care
To understand the importance of self-care, it helps to understand why most people use drugs and alcohol. Most people use to escape, relax, or reward themselves [4]. These are the primary benefits of using. It helps to acknowledge these benefits in therapy so that individuals can understand the importance of self-care and be motivated to find healthy alternatives.
 
Despite its importance, self-care is one of the most overlooked aspects of recovery. Without it, individuals can go to self-help meetings, have a sponsor, do step work, and still relapse. Self-care is difficult because recovering individuals tend to be hard on themselves. This can present overtly, as individuals who don’t feel they deserve to be good to themselves or who tend to put themselves last, or it can show up covertly as individuals who say they can be good to themselves but who are ruthlessly critical of themselves. Self-care is especially difficult for adult children of addicts.
 
A missing piece of the puzzle for many clients is understanding the difference between selfishness and self-care. Selfishness is taking more than a person needs. Self-care is taking as much as one needs. Clinical experience has shown that addicted individuals typically take less than they need, and, as a result, they become exhausted or resentful and turn to their addiction to relax or escape. Part of challenging addictive thinking is to encourage clients to see that they cannot be good to others if they are first not good to themselves.
 
Individuals use drugs and alcohol to escape negative emotions; however, they also use as a reward and/or to enhance positive emotions. Poor self-care also plays a role in these situations. In these situations, poor self-care often precedes drug or alcohol use. For example, individuals work hard to achieve a goal, and when it is achieved, they want to celebrate. But as part of their all-or-nothing thinking, while they were working, they felt they didn’t deserve a reward until the job was done. Since they did not allow themselves small rewards during the work, the only reward that will suffice at the end is a big reward, which in the past has meant using.
 
Self-Care: Mind-Body Relaxation
Numerous studies have shown that mind-body relaxation reduces the use of drugs and alcohol and is effective in long-term relapse prevention. Relapse-prevention therapy and mind-body relaxation are commonly combined into mindfulness-based relapse prevention.
 
Mind-body relaxation plays several roles in recovery. First, stress and tension are common triggers of relapse. Second, mind-body relaxation helps individuals let go of negative thinking such as dwelling on the past or worrying about the future, which are triggers for relapse. Third, mind-body relaxation is a way of being kind to oneself. The practice of self-care during mind-body relaxation translates into self-care in the rest of life. Part of creating a new life in recovery is finding time to relax.
 
Rule 5: Don't Bend the Rules
The purpose of this rule is to remind individuals not to resist or sabotage change by insisting that they do recovery their way. A simple test of whether a person is bending the rules is if they look for loopholes in recovery. A warning sign is when clients ask for professional help and consistently ignore the advice.
 
Broadly speaking, once clients have been in recovery for a while, they can be divided into two categories: non-users and denied users. Non-users say that using was fun but acknowledge that it has not been fun lately. They want to start the next chapter of their life.
 
Denied users will not or cannot fully acknowledge the extent of their addiction. They cannot imagine life without using. Denied users invariably make a secret deal with themselves that at some point they will try using again. Important milestones such as recovery anniversaries are often seen as reasons to use. Alternatively, once a milestone is reached, individuals feel they have recovered enough that they can determine when and how to use safely. It is remarkable how many people have relapsed this way 5, 10, or 15 years after recovery.
 
Clients are encouraged to identify whether they are non-users or denied users. A denied user is in chronic mental relapse and at high-risk for future relapse. Clinical experience has shown that everyone in early recovery is a denied user. The goal is to help individuals move from denied users to non-users.
Summary and Conclusions
Individuals do not achieve recovery by just not using. Recovery involves creating a new life in which it is easier to not use. If individuals do not change their lives, then all the factors that contributed to their addiction will still be there. But most individuals begin recovery by hoping to get back their old life without the using. Relapse is a gradual process that begins weeks and sometimes months before an individual picks up a drink or drug. There are three stages to relapse: emotional, mental, and physical. The common denominator of emotional relapse is poor self-care. If individuals do not practice sufficient self-care, eventually they will start to feel uncomfortable in their own skin and look for ways to escape, relax, or reward themselves. The goal of treatment is to help individuals recognize the early warning signs of relapse and develop coping skills to prevent relapse early when the chances of success are greatest. Most relapses can be explained in terms of a few basic rules. Understanding these rules can help clients focus on what is important: 1) change your life; 2) be completely honest; 3) ask for help; 4) practice self-care; and 5) don’t bend the rules. And yes as promised my latest addition
Have fun in recovery and during the recovery process because if your recovery is boring, depressing and no fun at all lost addicts will self-rationalize and say well this is no better than it was before why should I bother and revert into old habits and using. This is one of the reasons that I make sure we have groups that are just structured towards having fun IE BBQ’s we have, Hockey games we attend, The Rodeo, The Race for Recovery. So, when creating your aftercare plan make sure that you leave room for just having fun!!!!

This counts as a relapse prevention group for all AHCCCS Clients as in the past BAC purchases a limited number of tickets depending on the funds we have available. That being said if you are an AHCCCS Client and you would like to attend sign up with the front desk and you will get a ticket good for admission, a food voucher, and yes a prized Tucson Roadrunners Baseball Cap and this year they are awesome. This is a $78.00 value per ticket package so please only sign up and take the tickets if you plan to attend. 

Photo credit Stephen Leonardi

4 Tips For Staying Positive During Addiction Recovery
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Starting on the road to recovery from addiction is challenging even for the strongest of people. Common struggles include:
 
●Fears, such as failure in recovery or rejection by loved ones.
●Feeling stuck, frustrated, and unable to move forward with recovery.
●Guilt and shame over the past.
●Avoiding a relapse.
●Struggling to socialize again without revisiting old habits.
●Stress over all these struggles.
 
Remember that addiction itself is not defined as bad behavior. The American Society of Addiction Medicine (ASAM) defines it as “a primary chronic disease of the brain’s circuitry related to reward, motivation, and memory.” In other words, the disease serves as a way to find relief or reward through substance use and abuse. It is challenging to overcome because your brain has learned this repetitive behavior. However, the brain is flexible and can change and adapt to learn new behaviors.
 
As emotional challenges arise, you must learn to address them. Here are some critical things to consider as you move forward in recovery.
 
Take Time To Develop Emotional Maturity
 
One important task to address as you work with your support group and counselors is to grow your emotional maturity. As you move forward in recovery, you will develop this skill, giving you the ability to handle emotions better and control your impulses. Many people turn to substances because they don’t know how to handle their emotions effectively. Alcohol or drugs can provide some temporary relief, but it’s important to be able to manage your emotions to live a more fulfilling life. Developing emotional maturity will make it easier to be positive. 
 
Change Your Perspective; Be Patient
 
Knowing how far you’ve come since you’ve started your journey is important. You are on a path of growth, and growth takes time, just like learning those new habits will. Remember that addiction is a disease and recovery can be a lifelong process. Rather than despairing over this, think of this as your journey to a new, improved you. It takes time, dedication and learning for anyone to better themselves – no one can run ahead and skip the important parts.
 
Cultivate A Positive Attitude
 
Although “positive thinking” sounds like a cliché, research shows it may have real benefits. Studies show that negative thinking narrows your options on how to respond to something. That’s because negative thinking evolved from people’s need to escape danger. You need to focus sharply to escape from a predator.
 
But positive thinking allowed people to consider more options and even helped build skill sets that had a lasting effect. Thinking positively allows you to lose the focus that comes with negative thinking; instead, you start seeing unlimited possibilities. Meditation, creative writing, and relaxation can help you have a more positive outlook on the world.
 
While you are working on your recovery, a positive outlook is hard to maintain. But you can choose to see the best in yourself by journaling, writing down things you are grateful for and choosing the best support systems. Success also recommends  focusing on the good things, even if they’re small and finding the humor in bad situations.
Making a Clean Slate
 
Part of the recovery process includes removing yourself from old patterns and old habits. This typically means finding a different group of people to socialize with, but it can also mean moving. Those in recovery often find it especially helpful to start fresh with a new living arrangement. This ensures you’re upending old habits, like driving by the same liquor store on your way home from work. When looking for a new place, budget shouldn’t be the only concern. Survey the neighborhood and any amenities close by.  For example, look for a new apartment or house that is near a large park and within walking distance to grocery shopping.
Keep in mind that moving to a new location does not guarantee success if you are determined to use you will.
Getting Additional Help
 
Take stock of the current systems you are using to get through recovery. Are they enough? Are your support systems helping you develop self-confidence, responsibility, and emotional maturity?
 
If not, you may need to add support groups, therapies, or activities to your program. Pursuing creative activities, volunteering efforts, and learning a new skill are great ways to improve your self-esteem. You should also ask your therapist for more suggestions.
 
Getting to the root of your addiction will be a confusing and emotional experience, and you may never find the actual cause but taking the journey is important and having a good counselor to guide and help you understand your addiction may lead to you understanding your substance abuse problem completely which is an important step in conquering it. Additionally, family counseling can help facilitate healthy conversations with your loved ones and help them understand what you are going through and may increase the level of compassion, and pave the way for stronger relationships.

Thank you Claire for sharing your article with us and we look forward to seeing more articles from you in the future. 

​Pregnant with her second child, Clarissa Collins was at her methadone clinic when a woman walked in with a box of doughnuts and a baby doll. 
The woman, Tara Sundem, was partway through a five-year effort to open Hushabye Nursery and launch a novel family-focused program that would treat substance-exposed infants and offer care and support to their caregivers. 
Hushabye Nursery recently celebrated one year in its current care facility in Phoenix and Collins now works there as a peer support specialist, helping others in recovery. 

The center houses a 12-room inpatient nursery for infants suffering from neonatal abstinence syndrome – newborns experiencing withdrawal from opioids they were exposed to in the womb, such as heroin and prescription painkillers. 
 
But on that day in 2019, Collins begrudgingly attended Sundem’s support group for pregnant women with opioid use disorder. By the second group meeting, she decided to come back every week. 
“I looked forward to it. I wanted to see the other girls; I wanted to hear their stories. I wanted to meet the baby,” Collins said. “And we became this little family. We became very close friends.” 
As the opioid epidemic worsens nationwide, neonatal abstinence syndrome (NAS) cases are increasing, too. Nationally, the number of babies born with the condition increased 82% from 2010 to 2017, according to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention. 
The national trend in NAS cases holds true in Arizona and has worsened since the Covid pandemic began. Arizona’s NAS rate in 2020 was 9.1 per 1,000 newborn hospitalizations, up from 5.67 per 1,000 in 2015, according to Arizona Department of Health Services vital statistics reports. In 2010, that figure was 2.65 per 1,000.  

​Clarissa Collins, a peer support specialist at Hushabye Nursery, sits in one of the 12 private rooms where babies with neonatal abstinence syndrome and their families weather the withdrawal process. PHOTO BY KYRA HAAS/ARIZONA CAPITOL TIMES
Some of the increase can be attributed to better reporting and other factors, not the opioid epidemic itself, said Sara Rumann, with the department’s Bureau of Women’s and Children’s Health.  
“But we can say overall the general trend is that it has increased over the last 10 years,” Rumann said. 
Symptoms of NAS can include a high-pitched cry, vomiting, diarrhea, trembling, seizures, stiff limbs and trouble sleeping, eating and breathing, according to the department. The babies experience a withdrawal syndrome, not an addiction. 
Collins had her first daughter in 2012, but started using heroin shortly thereafter. The Arizona Department of Child Safety got involved, and Collins ended up relinquishing her parental rights. Her daughter now lives with family in Louisiana. 
“I had gotten strung out right after she was born; I had no history of addiction prior,” Collins said. “But one thing led to another, and a lot of it was I was desperate for my friends. I was 17. I had just had a baby. I wanted my friends back, so I did whatever they were doing.” 
This time would be different. 
Sobriety was part of that, and so was the Hushabye Opioid Pregnancy Preparation and Empowerment (HOPPE) program. Collins still has her green HOPPE binder, which she calls the bible, that helped her prepare for her baby’s arrival, gather information for the DCS investigation and document her classes. 
Medication-assisted treatment (MAT) uses medications like methadone or buprenorphine in combination with counseling and therapy to treat opioid-use disorder. Hushabye staff recognize MAT as the “gold standard” of care, Sundem said. It’s recommended for pregnant women with opioid-use disorder because it’s often unsafe for women to completely stop taking opioids while pregnant. The change can trigger a miscarriage, preterm labor or fetal distress.  
But because the medications used are opioids, Department of Child Safety is still contacted because the baby is still substance exposed. 
“Whether it be prescribed or unprescribed, that’s for DCS to figure out, but it has to be reported to the state,” Collins said. 
The increase in NAS cases is something Sundem, a neonatal nurse practitioner, saw firsthand. She has spent most of her nearly 30-year nursing career in neonatal intensive care units. About eight years ago, she said, something changed. 

​Clarissa Collins, left, chats with Hushabye Nursery executive director and founder Tara Sundem at the facility. Sundem and Collins first met in 2019 when Collins attended one of Sundem’s support groups for pregnant women with opioid use disorder. PHOTO BY KYRA HAAS/ARIZONA CAPITOL TIMES
“We just started seeing this surge of babies coming in and withdrawing,” Sundem said. “When we started seeing that influx, I was like, ‘What do we do?’” 
About six years ago, Kelly Woody, who co-founded Hushabye with Sundem, had the answer. The fellow neonatal nurse practitioner had watched a segment on the “Today” show about Lily’s Place, a first-of-its-kind Neonatal Abstinence Syndrome center in West Virginia. 
Woody told Sundem, “This is what we’re going to do.” 
“I’m a believer, and I prayed on it and prayed on it and prayed on it, and went, ‘OK, I guess I’m supposed to do this,’” Sundem said. 
They spent the next five years developing their care model and trying to find funding. 
“I begged, I borrowed, I asked favors,” Sundem said. 
Hushabye’s current facility opened in November 2020. Hushabye is licensed with the state health department and is accredited through the Commission on Accreditation of Rehabilitation Facilities International. 
The nursery’s approach is family-centric, with programs for women prenatal and postpartum.  
Postpartum care for mothers is important because the relapse rate in the first six months is high – nearly 80%. Alicia Allen, an associate professor at the University of Arizona’s Department of Family and Community Medicine, studies substance use in women. She said while postpartum is an especially vulnerable time, it’s also a good time for health care professionals to interact with people who are struggling with substance use. 
“During pregnancy, there’s a lot more motivation, there’s a lot more support and there’s a lot more access to health care, so that’s a perfect place to start,” Allen said. 
With in-patient infants, Hushabye uses the Eat, Sleep, Console method, a newer approach to treating NAS that prioritizes the comfort of the baby and non-pharmacologic treatments, shifting away from scheduled postnatal opioid treatment to “as needed” dosing. Parents stay with their babies during their time at the nursery. 
“Our patient in-patient is that baby, but that baby’s therapy is their family,” Sundem said. 
The Eat, Sleep, Console approach is effective. Babies withdrawing at Hushabye stay an average of about 6 to 7 days. The national average stay for a baby with NAS in a neonatal intensive care unit was 11 days in 2018.  
Banner University Medical Center Tucson was the first Arizona hospital to learn about Eat, Sleep, Console, a model that got its start at Yale University through the research of pediatrician Dr. Matthew Grossman.  
“What we’ve been doing for the last 40 years is not working, and everybody’s cranky. Not only the babies – the families are cranky; the nurses are cranky,” Lisa Grisham, director of Banner’s Family Centered NAS Care Program, said. “When you look back, we thought we were doing the best we could. And now we realize there’s a better way to do it.” 
In addition to Hushabye, nine hospitals in Arizona use Eat, Sleep, Console for at least some of their NAS patients, depending on the individual situation.  
 At Hushabye, there are 12 private rooms where babies can withdraw in a dark environment and their families can stay 24/7. Usually, there are five or six babies at any one time, though Sundem said there was recently a span of three weeks where they were at capacity.  
“We encourage (caregivers) to stay, even if they’re struggling. As long as that’s safe and they’re not dangerous, we want them to stay,” she said. “What they are doing for their baby just by being present in the room – they’re helping with the wiring of the brain, something that you and I can’t do.” 
When a family comes to Hushabye, Sundem said staff meet them where they’re at — and connect them to resources for food, transportation and housing if needed. She said she thinks families stay in part because the staff are trauma-informed. They know that many people have experienced trauma, that trauma affects health and behavior and that it should be factored into how people are treated to avoid retraumatizing them. 
If parents are able, staff help teach them how to care for their baby. With all families, Sundem said staff try to help them avoid shame or guilt by understanding that they have opioid use disorder, a medical condition, not some sort of moral failing. 
Many of the parents, Sundem said, started taking an opioid after it was prescribed to them following something like an accident or a C-section and then developed a dependence. Three out of four women who use heroin were initially prescribed opiates. 
“When you talk to families, it is to function – it’s not to get high,” Sundem said. “They literally say that they’re dope sick, that they use to get well.” 
In an effort to reduce stigma against pregnant women with opioid-use disorder, the health department launched its campaign “Hope Heals” earlier this year, following a recommendation in the state’s Opioid Action Plan 2.0. Rumann worked on the campaign, as did Jacqueline Kurth, the office chief for injury and violence prevention in the department’s Bureau of Chronic Disease and Health Promotion. 
“There’s a lot of stigma that is a barrier for people seeking help for mental health disorders and for substance use disorders, in particular for pregnant and parenting women,” Kurth said. 

The green Hushabye Opioid Pregnancy Preparation and Empowerment (HOPPE) program binder helps women prepare for their baby’s arrival, gather information for the Department of Child Safety and document their classes. PHOTO BY KYRA HAAS/ARIZONA CAPITOL TIMES
On the outpatient side, Hushabye has a licensed marriage and family therapist and two case managers. One case manager focuses specifically on helping families navigate interactions with the Arizona Department of Child Safety. Sometimes, Sundem said, families are so stressed that they don’t really hear what DCS is saying they need to do. 
“Sometimes it’s because they’re not healthy, but sometimes it’s just because it’s so stressful,” Sundem said. “And sometimes, they speak a completely different language.” 
That was Collins’ experience after the birth of her first child. 
“I had no clue what the hell I was doing back then,” she said. “I went through DCS; I went to court; I did all of that. I tried going to treatment, but I had no clue what I was doing. I was physically present, but I had no clue what was going on.” 
Collins and the other peer support person have both been through the Hushabye program. Collins’ daughter recently turned 2. The other peer support’s baby will be 1 in February. 
The facility has two nurses on duty around-the-clock, even if there’s only one baby, to be able to resuscitate if needed. While not a hospital, Hushabye provides the care a baby with NAS needs. If something goes wrong, Banner – University Medical Center Phoenix, Valleywise Health Medical Center and Phoenix Children’s Hospital are all a 5- to 7-minute drive from the nursery.  
Out of the more than 180 babies treated at Hushabye, only three have been sent back to the hospital for additional treatment, Sundem said.  
For Collins, working as peer support for others in recovery has helped her, too. She still attends groups and lives with her daughter and her fiancé, who is also in recovery. She knows what the women at Hushabye are experiencing because she’s been through it.  
“It’s healing to me,” she said. “Because it’s like I’m almost able to close a chapter in my past knowing that, OK, I got somebody somewhere farther than I could go.”